4 ways to answer.
Every card shows which one it is.
- DialogueYou exchange your thoughts and feelings about the question with each other and talk or discuss about it.
- MonologueAs in dialogue, but first one person speaks and then the other. That is, without interrupting, commenting or in any other form in word or movement.
- I for YouYou answer the question as if you were your partner and then your partner answers the question as if they were you. Afterwards you both answer the question for yourselves. You are welcome to talk more about this afterwards.
- ActivitySimply follow the instructions.
Answer as your partner.
On I for You cards, you first answer as your partner would. Then you answer for yourself.
When I am an old grandma or grandpa, I see myself as I ...
Tip: Name different hobbies, life circumstances, experiences and the like.
I for You
Things to do together.
Activity cards ask you to do something together, like holding eye contact. The app keeps the time.
Look at each other. Sit opposite each other, wrapped in a blanket if necessary, look into each other’s eyes at a small distance for 10 minutes, blinking little if possible.
Activity
10:00
Play on one phone.
You sit together. A card opens when you are both ready. You talk, and the app shows the card, whose turn it is and the timer.
What is your most successful, your favorite, and your worst habit, and why?
Dialogue
Play at your own pace.
There is no time limit and there are no streaks. Play the way it suits you both.
- One eveningAll the cards you manage tonight
- A card a dayOne card, the next one tomorrow
- Card nightOne evening a week, a few cards
Heart Meets Brain
